The Secret of Success is Harmony

The two things that every person wants from this life are to be happy and successful. They want it, but often forget that it is determined only by what they do. They believe in luck and coincidence, hoping that everything in the outside world will work in their favor.

However, life is based on cause and effect. Every success is achieved after creating the right reasons.

The most important secret of creating the right reasons in every successfully managed process is to recognize the difference and adapt. For example, to grow a flower, we must first know the characteristics of that flower. If we choose a pot, soil, location and irrigation level compatible with it, the flower will grow. Each flower requires different conditions, different reasons.

We read news titled "Mountaineers who challenged the mountain". "Challenging" is a flattering expression, but can one achieve success by challenging? No, one cannot.

How can one climb a mountain without knowing the characteristics and conditions of the mountain and without adapting to these conditions?

How is the mountain's air, ground, pressure level, rock properties, height, surroundings .... etc?

Do I have the characteristics and equipment to climb this mountain?

Are my muscles strong? Is my skin sensitive? How is my cold or heat resistance? Am I brave? Am I determined? Am I resistant to insomnia? How is it possible to get to the top of that mountain without recognizing and adapting to these details? Recognizing the difference and adaptation is what will lead us to success.

This is the same in human relationships. In order to successfully manage our relationships with ourselves and with other people, we need to recognize and adapt to differences. But people always want the other person to be like them, to look at things the same way. If she sees a different behavior, she makes reproaches such as ‘'what different people there are, I don't understand these people, people are so selfish'’. She spends years wishing that she would meet people like her, the people she deserves. Always similar complaints and similar results.

People are created similar to each other in many ways, but at the same time each person is different in detail. These differences are reflected in our speech, posture and motivation in life. 

They affect the way we do business and our approaches to communication. We react and interpret things differently. There are real reasons for these differences that can be explained, just as every mountain and every flower has its own different realities. What we need to do to achieve success in our relationships is to recognize the differences in ourselves and others, accept these realities and act in harmony.

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